Friday, May 2, 2008

Just an Update regarding "things"

*If your child is sick... PLEASE do not bring them around my kids... so much so that my children end up sliding down the slide after your child has had the most putrid diarrhea in their shorts. Yeah, Lysol is my favorite friend. We have had our fair share of off the wall illness this year and I am not about to deal with any more should I not have to. I have an infant living here... does anyone NOT understand this?!?!?!
*Grandma is not doing well at all. Her urine is full of blood. She is not very responsive to anyone including my mother. She does not appear to be in pain unless they move her and then she will groan. They did a scan of her to search for blood clots yesterday. Shocked my mother when she showed up at the hospital and grandma was not in her bed and their was a body board on the bed. Thankfully she got the answer from a nurse right away as to the whereabouts of my grandmother. My mother does not believe my grandmother will make it even a week so we will most likely be preparing for a funeral. I told Chris he will have to get his dress uniform ready as I am sure he will be a pall bearer for my grandmother. I have to see what I have for the girls. I know my mother also picked up a suit jacket of some sorts at Goodwill for my brother in law. The baby will be easy. Me, not so much. I have not gone to a funeral since 1999. Oh wait, I am lying. I went to a wake in 2006. But no funeral. What does one wear? UGH.... I am not ready for this. I am not ready to teach my children this lesson in life as they adore my grandmother. Kiley keeps talking about "Gamma Goff broke her arms". UGH.... So, once she passes, her body will be sent back up to Rhode Island to be buried with my grandfather in the Veteran's Cemetary. She will meet up with my grandfather and my uncle once she makes it to the next phase of her life.......................................................................
*Someone PLEASE tell me what you think "Team Mom" duties for a coach pitch softball team consist of... PLEASE enlighten me.....
*I wanted to let you all know I appreciate all your prayers for my grandmother and for our family. Please pray she has a gentle ride on her way to the pearly gates. I do not believe this is how she was meant to go... but whatever it was, I have to believe this is all in God's plan and in God's time.
*Please pray for my mother as I know she is struggling with being "Orphaned." Once my grandmother passes she will not have anyone as her brother is a big POS.... seriously.... That would be a whole new blog that could go on for eons about mister rich pants and his haughty taughty wife living in a mansion in Myrtle Beach waiting for grandma to croak to get their paws in her money. I am so disgusted to say the least. He doesnt make an effort to see her. Neither do his children with their children. My mother is going to struggle.... and I feel for her despite how my grandmother treated her her whole life.....
*Thank you all.....

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